For My Son David
By Loretta Franchini
Always yours truly,
David’s Mom.... Loretta
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Dearest Friends,
My book, "David", written in tribute and; honor of my son, is now available. When I first saw the book in hardcover, I wept tears of joy and sadness because of the reality and tangibility of all! No more could there be denial that physically, David had passed. - but how I grasp on to his spirit which is always with me.
There is no doubt that the writing of his story and the sincere love of my family and friends helped me to survive when I first learned of David's passing. David's image on the this website and the book demonstrates that he lives on - and that he will help others even without his physical presence.
Hopefully, when someone is in anguish and searching for
guidance; that help may be found in reading,
"David, A Young's Man's Journey Out Of The Light,
And Into The Darkness Of Bipolar".
Here is where the book can be purchased....
There is a hardcover, softcover, and even an electronic
(pdf) download at a very nominal cost.
All proceeds will go to charity serving
those with mental illness.
My Love to All
David's Mom.... Loretta
A major breakthrough in mental health has been developed, a cooperative venture between the National Bipolar Foundation and the MedicAlert Foundation; a preventative care program called "Safe 'til Stable." It provides vital medical information to emergency responders in time of need through our live 24-hour emergency response service. In a medical emergency, this can help reduce the trauma experienced by individuals impacted with bipolar disorder.
If an individual experiences an event, first responders on the scene (e.g., law enforcement, emergency services personnel, etc.) will look for a medical ID with the "MEDIC ALERT" symbol. The "Safe 'til Stable" program is a milestone; in that, those with bipolar disorder will have a voice in times when they cannot speak for themselves, will be properly routed in times of emergency providing a sense of security for the individual and those close to them.
The National Bipolar Foundation (NBPF) was founded, in 2007 by Marc Kullman, in order to reduce stigma, educate, and seek affordable health care for those people living with bipolar disorder. A National Awareness Initiative has been launched to spread awareness through press releases, press conferences, proclamations, influential people, and its online campaign through social media networking. The MedicAlert Foundation, founded in 1956, is the leader in providing identification and emergency medical information. Together both foundations have developed a program that will prevent the misdirection, misdiagnosis, and mistreatment's of participants; saving precious time and dollars.
Bipolar disorder is said to affect at least 1 in 100 people and some say as many as 1 in 25, including undiagnosed cases. This cooperative effort between NBPF and the MedicAlert Foundation will have widespread impact on our society. Children, adolescents, and adults living with bipolar disorder, who are involved in accidents and unable to speak for themselves will have the MedicAlert Emergency Services speaking for them, informing hospital staff and medical providers of their diagnoses, current medications in order to avoid potential dangerous withdrawal, and the acute onset of instability in regards to any symptoms of bipolar disorder.
Another major benefit of the program is that when a bipolar person finds themselves in an unforeseen incident, responders will react in an appropriate manner; thus given the opportunity to defuse the situation or transport the person to an appropriate facility. The implementation of this program immediately creates jail diversion benefiting all of society. The "Safe 'til Stable" program will benefit individuals wearing the identification jewelry, reduce stress on their families, and ultimately reduce the cost of their care for all taxpayers.
Source: National Bipolar Foundation
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Mental Health America is applauding legislation introduced by a bipartisan group of U.S. Senators to establish national centers of excellence for the treatment of depression and bipolar disorders.
The centers will create a national network to help diagnose people in need and improve access to evidence-based, quality care.
The bill, called the "ENHANCED Act" was introduced by U.S. Senators Debbie Stabenow (D-Mich.), George Voinovich (R-Ohio), Sherrod Brown (D-Ohio), and John Kerry (D-Mass.). Senator Kay Bailey Hutchison (R-Tex.) is also a co-sponsor.
The legislation is based on efforts catalyzed by the University of Michigan Depression Center with 15 other leading academic medical centers across the nation. Joining together, these universities created a network of depression centers positioned to take academic research and translate it into practice, standardize diagnoses, treat early and more effectively, and prevent recurrences of depression and bipolar disorders.
In a letter to Stabenow applauding her leadership in crafting the bill, Mental Health America said:
"These centers are especially critical at this time given the strong evidence that economic uncertainty and recession increase the rates of psychiatric symptoms and demand for services. Depression is associated with poorer health outcomes and higher health care costs. Rates of depression and suicide-already at a staggering level of nearly 33,000 persons a year (roughly twice the number of homicides)-tend to climb during times of economic tumult. Our nation must prioritize the integration and coordination of mental health with general health care."
The ENHANCED Act of 2009:
- Creates a national network with a pathway for developing and expanding up to 30 depression centers of excellence to increase access to the most appropriate and evidence-based depression care.
- Develops evidence-based treatment standards, clinical guidelines, and protocols to improve accurate and timely diagnosis of depression and bipolar disorders.
- Expands multidisciplinary, translational, and patient-oriented research by fostering the collaboration of academic and community-based service centers.
- Establishes a sustainable national resource for public and professional education and training, to advance knowledge and eradicate the stigma associated with depression and mood disorders.
Mental Health America looks forward to working with the Senate sponsors to win enactment of the legislation.
Source
Mental Health America
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As in my book, here too I must thank the handful of people that have been with me every day since the loss of my son. I would be remiss, if I did not give them mention here.
From the Book
I am grateful and blessed to have been surrounded by so many loving family and friends. Without their support, caring and patience it would not have been possible to undertake a project such as this, to which such emotional challenges were attached.
To my big sister Pat and her partner Kathy, my brother Steve and his wife Edna, and my dearest friend Bonnie. Thank you for always offering counsel and demonstrating your love; even when I was unbearably angry and blameful while deeply grieving the loss of my precious son David.
To Cliff and Wandalee. Cliff...Thank you for your assistance to me with this project. Without your collaboration, computer skills, and constant optimistic encouragement, this would be almost an insurmountable task. From my heart to yours, may I express my enormous gratitude and love. It was because of your guidance and constant encouragement that I was able to honor and give a just tribute to my sweet son.
And to Wandalee (Cliff’s wife), your expressions of uncon- ditional love and support so often pulled me out of many of my despairing moments. And as David would often write to me...
“May you both experience all “The Best This World Has To Offer, Along With Infinite Good Health?
To Ivan; David called him ‘Bro, for brother. To Ivan’s mother & father Consuelo, (my dearest adopted sister) and her husband Arnaldo. Thank you for always being there for David; exhibiting the utmost respect, unending love, kindness and humor. You sustained me in the most agonizing time of my life
To my dearest and treasured friend Deanna. Only during the month spent with you did I begin to feel a glimmer of healing. Gradually, the vicious anger that I had been expressing abated. Your extremely sensitive and caring nature gave me strength when I had none. Thank you for the many tears we shared and the lovely books we read to each other. I felt such peace and comfort in your presence.
To Simone, Silvio, and children. For I was enfolded in their loving, generous and compassionate arms while living with them for three months in Cattolica, Italy.
To Fioretta and Mario Prioli for their unending display of warmth and hospitality. And, for the delicious and unforgett- able “Romagnoli” meals at their Hotel Marconi.
To Aldo.... Who simply understood that I needed to experience again the gorgeous countryside of Italy. The abundance of natural beauty just amazed me and lightened my heavy heart. “Grazie” for your kindness, humor, and affection.
To Evelyn Miller, Joanne Neagus, and all at the National Alliance of Mental Health Support Group. I thank them for their expression of unending compassion, advice and support all through the years of David’s plight.
To Gustavo Benejam for his sincerity, kindness and knowledge- able guidance throughout my grieving process.
With the world becoming smaller and smaller due to the power of the internet, I thought to myself, “what better way to reach the greatest amount of people then to create a website?” As you can see... I did! :-)
The website is an expansion of my book. It gives me the ability to extend my arms, reach out, and take by the hand many of the untold who suffer with challenges such as these, and their families.
It allows me to continue providing new research and resources, and hopefully provide inspiration and support through any thoughts and advice I may be able to offer. I will also be documenting some of my experiences with support groups, and my on-going quest for continued peace and strength
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Your Are Not Alone
If you or a loved one suffer from bipolar, do not be alone and carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. The power of bipolar support groups are not to be underestimated. You will soon know that you are not alone. In fact, you are in some good company. You are part of a group of folks who are among some of the most highly creative and successful people throughout history. See my post on 'Can Bipolar Be Managed?'.
The majority of these groups are free and confidential. Finding a group will help speed your recovery, and teach you how to deal with the day to day challenges this condition has you facing.
Joining a support group can be one of the best things you've ever done for yourself or loved one. Next to the love and support of family and friends, it will be the best thing to help with the healing process.
Even if you or your loved one has some initial resistance, I beg you to consider at least that first meeting. You've got everything to gain and absolutely nothing to loose. Research has proven the value of bipolar support groups and how the can aid in recovery process.
A five-year, SAMHSA-funded study that compared participants in group support to those receiving traditional services, those in support groups showed greater improvement in well-being (including recovery, social inclusion, empowerment, quality of life, meaning of life and hope). This recent DBSA report on bipolar support groups describes how much support groups can help, and offers evidence that peer support can be effective.
Bipolar group support can offer many simple yet practical coping techniques. Helping one gain inner peace, learning how to change the their reactions to the people and situations they feel they have no control over. Members learn how to identify and manage negative thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and behaviors that can lead to emotional distress and stress related physical symptoms. The techniques are learned through regular attendance at meetings, studying the Recovery literature, and daily practice.
What groups exist?
There are a different styles of groups available. One may be a self-help group facilitated by a professional clinician.
Some groups are patient focused...and some groups are family-focused.
Seek some advice, or use your own judgment on which type you think you would like to try. Now, know that you are not tied to any group. If you feel are not comfortable or happy in a particular group, move on and seek out another.
The wonderful thing about 99% of these groups is that they are cost free! This is an incredible blessing given the high cost of therapy. Of course, the patient will still need a doctor or psychiatrist though. Medication is essential for most bipolar people, and should only be obtained under the care of an expert physician.
Recommended groups
A good place to start is a Depression and Bipolar Support (DBSA) local group.The DBSA bipolar support groups are volunteer run and provide self-help through peer facilitated meetings. They are not group therapy, however, they usually have professional advisors from the community (for example a psychiatrist, psychologist, nurse or social worker). Each local group may do things a little differently but all DBSA groups will offer a high level of sharing and caring and bipolar group support to help you stay well.
Take two minutes and listen to this sweet man.
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (DBSA)
2107 Wilson Boulevard, #300
Arlington, VA 22201
800-950-6264
www.dbsalliance.org
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)
730 N. Franklin Street, #501
Chicago, IL 60610
800-826-3632
www.nami.org
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
120 Wall Street
New York, NY 10005
800-333-2377
www.afsp.org
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)
6001 Executive Blvd., Rm 8184 MSC 9663
Bethesda, MD 20892
866-615-6464
TTY: 866-415-8051
www.nimh.nih.gov
National Mental Health Consumers Self-Help Clearinghouse
1211 Chestnut Street
Philadelphia, PA 19107
866-615-6464
www.mhasp.org
NAMI (the National Alliance on Mental Illness) is the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization. They they cover a broader range of mental health issues and this site focuses on bipolar. However, NAMI groups are excellent and well worth trying, especially if you are interested in a more family-focused approach.
Unfortunately there are not bipolar support groups in every area. However, there are over 700 groups in the US so you are still more likely than not to find one.
Summary
Bipolar group support offers some or all of the following:
1. Connection and friendship with others who relate & very well understand your plight.
2. An outlet to vent in a way you may not want to such as home or the workplace.
3. Libraries of books and videos on bipolar and other mood disorders.
4. Access to many expert guest speakers who participate quite often.
5. Information on medication, therapies, legal rights, and local services and clinicians.
6. Encouragement and motivation.
A Brilliant Madness
by Patty Duke & Gloria Hochman
An Unquiet Mine
by Kay Redfield Jamison
Darkness Visible
by William Styron
Daughter of the Queen of Sheba
by Jackie Lyden
Manic Depressive Illness
by Goodwin and Jamison
Moodswings
by Ronald Fieve, M.D.
On the Edge of Darkness
by Kathy Cronkite
Sights Unseen
by Kaye Gibson
The Beast
by Tracy Thompson
We Heard the Angels of Madness
by Berger
Remember... there IS help.... there ARE people who care.... Use the resources, for one day you too will be the, 'help' and 'caring' for another in need. And THAT, is the best therapy for recovery of them all!
with Love
Loretta F.
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This article was found on the 'National Alliance on Mental Illness' (NAMI) website. This website, of the NAMI organization is one of the finest resources for information and help. Please visit them over here.
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Can children and adolescents get bipolar disorder?
Bipolar disorder can occur in children and adolescents and has been investigated by federally funded teams in children as young as age 6.
How common is it in children and adolescents?
Although once thought rare, caseloads of patients examined for federally funded studies have shown that approximately 7% of children seen at psychiatric facilities fit bipolar disorder using research standards.
What are the symptoms of bipolar disorder in children and adolescents?
One of the biggest challenges has been to differentiate children with mania from those with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. Both groups of children present with irritability, hyperactivity and distractibility. So these symptoms are not useful for the diagnosis of mania because they also occur in ADHD.
But, elated mood, grandiose behaviors, flight of ideas, decreased need for sleep and hypersexuality occur primarily in mania and are uncommon in ADHD. Below is a brief description of how to recognize these mania-specific symptoms in children.
Elated children may laugh hysterically and act infectiously happy without any reason at home, school or in church. If someone who did not know them saw their behaviors, they would think the child was on his/her way to Disneyland. Parents and teachers often see this as "Jim Carey-like" behaviors.
Grandiose behaviors are when children act as if the rules do not pertain to them. For example, they believe they are so smart that they can tell the teacher what to teach, tell other students what to learn and call the school principal to complain about teachers they do not like. Some children are convinced that they can do superhuman deeds (e.g., that they are Superman) without getting seriously hurt, e.g. "flying" out of windows.
Flight of ideas is when children jump from topic to topic in rapid succession when they talk and not just when a special event has happened.
Decreased need for sleep is manifested by children who sleep only 4-6 hours and are not tired the next day. These children may stay up playing on the computer and ordering things or rearranging furniture.
Hypersexuality can occur in children with mania without any evidence of physical or sexual abuse. These children act flirtatious beyond their years, may try to touch the private areas of adults (including teachers), and use explicit sexual language.
In addition, it is most common for children with mania to have multiple cycles during the day from giddy, silly highs to morose, gloomy suicidal depressions. It is very important to recognize these depressed cycles because of the danger of suicide.
What treatments--medications and psychosocial--have been shown to be effective for children and adolescents with this condition?
At this time there are several ongoing studies of how to best treat children, but until more scientific data is available clinicians are left using their best judgment on how to manage using medications that have been effective in adults. These are largely three main types of drugs -- Lithium, anticonvulsants (e.g., Depakote or other valproate products) and atypical neuroleptics (e.g., risperidone, olanzapine, ziprasidone, aripiprazole, quetiapine).
Are there any side effects associated with these treatments, including those that may only occur in young people?
Side effects that are particularly troublesome and that are worse in children include the following. Atypical neuroleptics (except aripiprazloe) are associated with marked weight gain in many children. One day we hope to have specific genetic tests that will tell us beforehand which people will gain weight on these medications. But right now, it is trial and error.
The dangers of this weight gain include glucose problems that may include the onset of diabetes and increased blood lipids that may worsen heart and stroke problems later in life. In addition, these drugs can cause an illness called tardive dyskinesia, which is irreversible, unsightly, repeated movements of the tongue in and out of the mouth or cheek and some other movement abnormalities.
Depakote may also be associated with increased weight and possibly with a disease called polycystic ovarian syndrome (POS). In some cases POS is associated with infertility later in life. Lithium has been the market the longest and is the only medication that has been shown to be effective against future episodes of mania and of depression and of completed suicides. Some people who take lithium over a long time will need a thyroid supplement and in rare cases may develop serious kidney disease.
It is very important that children on these medications be monitored for the development of serious side effects. These side effects need to be weighed against the dangers of the manic-depressive illness itself, which can rob children of their childhood.
How do children and adolescents with this disease fare over time and as adults?
At this time, regrettably, the disease appears more severe and with a much longer road to recovery than is seen with adults. While some adults may have episodes of mania or depression with better functioning between episodes, children seem to have continuous illness over months and years.
Does bipolar disorder in children have an impact on educational achievement?
It is challenging to educate a child who is seriously too "high" or too "low." Therefore educators need to be aware of the diagnosis and make special arrangements.
Is suicide a risk?
Any talk about wanting to die, or asking why they were born or wishing they were never born must be taken very seriously as even quite young children can hang themselves in the shower, shoot themselves or complete suicide by other means.
Reviewed by Barbara Geller, M.D., January 2004
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Let's Take a Look At The Many Famous People Who Are Victims Of This Condition.
It is evident from all these people that Bipolar Disorder can be managed. People with Bipolar Disorder really do have a great deal to offer this world. Here's a list and a video. Sad? No, inspiring. Yes! Inspiring to know that control is within a Bipolar sufferer's grasp.
By John M. Grohol, Psy.D.
Bipolar disorder, which is also known by its older name "manic depression," is a serious mental disorder that responds to treatment with both medication and psychotherapy.
Not everyone who has bipolar disorder (manic depression) experiences every symptom. Some people experience a few symptoms, some many. The severity of symptoms varies with individuals and also varies over time. The top 10 signs of mania, one part of bipolar disorder, are:
* Abnormal or excessive elation
* Unusual irritability
* Decreased need for sleep
* Grandiose notions
* Increased talking
* Racing thoughts
* Increased sexual desire
* Markedly increased energy
* Poor judgment
* Inappropriate social behavior
People with Bipolar Disorder must not only meet the criteria for the signs and symptoms listed above, but also for an episode of depression.
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